Talking Physical Attraction

Assume for a bit that the chemistry, conversation, personality, and emotion are out of the situation. If you had the opportunity to choose one woman (or one woman with your ideal type) to be with, what would you choose?

A skinny blonde with giant tits? A spicy latina with a round ass? How about the fiery redhead with green eyes and milky white skin?

Perhaps your taste lies in the celebrity world. You'd choose Halle Berry, Jessica Simpson, or Heather Graham?

Think about it for a moment, you'd have the chance to debate in your head for just this one time in your life not only what you find appealing to the eyes but the traits that are appealing to the rest of the senses.

Does she have soft ample bosom? Does she have a hard body, totally in shape and very little body fat? Maybe she has pouty lips or short hair that smells of tea tree. Does she have piercings, tattoos, or any other random body mod?

Remember, no stigma here. You're not taking her home to meet your mom. You're simply indulging yourself in your own creative vision here.

Small button nose or one with a downward slope? Brown, blue, green, or hazel eyes? Full bush, trimmed, shaved, or waxed off? What would she be wearing when you begin to fulfill this physical fantasy? Have you shared a drink or two before hand? Do her lips taste of bourbon or something tropical and fruity? Perhaps of a recently smoked cigarette.

Lipstick, eyeshadow, or simply natural? Is her breath warm or cool on your neck? Does she smell of perfume or sweat and pheromones?

I ask all this and present this because I was stumbling around online and have come across a photograph that is spot on to something I find physically attractive. Something being the makeup of the traits, not someone because I have no idea who she is.



I saw this photo and froze a minute. Not really sure how to process it all. My desirable traits may not be defacto standard speaking purely physical, but I'll be damned if she doesn't just "do it" for me. Glasses, soft pink lips with a little plump, collar bone (but not skeletor), a little ink, the spaghetti strap tank, neatly defined eyebrows that are still full, not plucked so thin they look silly or drawn in, a little hip bone and some curves. She's got dark hair and an expression that's one half unassuming and one half "you know you want me, and I know you know...". The freckles, holy shit.. I could fall in love with her based just on her freckles.

So when it's time to indulge fantasy and have a little private time at home it's these traits that come to life in my head.

It's funny to me how off base this is with some of the guys I know. Physical attraction is a very unique thing though if you get down to it or maybe I'm just not into the unattainable or fake - thus hollywood does little for me. The girls in playboy, penthouse, etc.. they don't do much for me. When it comes to porn browsing preferences I tend to stick to the amature/homemade stuff. It's why I don't go to strip clubs or believe in "get rich quick" schemes. I don't buy into the fantasy of it all. I don't want to pay for illusion. I get my fill of that from my video games - controlled illusion with little expectation other than a few hours a week of life escapism.

So, yes, physical attraction being a unique thing. There are certain aspects I could care less about. There are certain aspects I'd place more emphasis on that go beyond simply the physical. However, when it comes to simply a lust state, a girl like that one is what comes to mind.

I don't need the frilly lingerie, don't bust out the crotchless panties, no need for thigh highs, give me a girl in simply a spaghetti strap (or my hockey jersey) and a seductive but innocent look, and you've got me by the horn(s). The other stuff, the toys, the sexy lingerie has its time and place - but for a woman like that - it's all totally optional. :)

Bring on the freckles and I swear to you as I sit here and type, you won't be disappointed.