Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Sex Through the Looking Glass
There is something almost mythic about bringing a camera into the bedroom. I think of all the senses the one most deprived during sex is visual. You're busy staring into her eyes, watching her tits bounce as she rides you, or closing them tight for climax.. your eyes miss so much of what's going on that the rest of your body gets to experience.
I've been told that men are visual and women are emotional when it comes to sex. I think that might have been true back in 1967 - but today's woman knows how to be just as visual and shallow as any frat boy - not to say that's a bad thing by any stretch of the imagination.
Some of the best sex I've ever had was with a girl who was confident enough in her body, her technique, and her sexuality that she wanted me shooting the whole thing. That not being fair to me (it's hard to cum when you're trying to focus a shot) we decided we'd share the duties.
She stripped down a little at a time, not a sexy strip tease, just one piece of clothing at a time slow enough that I could capture whatever moment in the process that I chose. She slid into the jacuzzi in the hotel room and simply bathed - aside from the pure beauty of a naked woman half submerged in water bathing there was nothing erotic about it. More simple beauty to capture to film. One of the better shots was when she was submerging from the water after rinsing her hair.
Being on that side of the camera while your lover pretends not to pose, pretends not to tease, pretends she's not a temptress, pretends she's not about to crawl to you on her hands and knees, undo your jeans, and slide your cock into her mouth brings about far more anticipation than simply knowing you're getting blown sometime that evening.
Capturing on film the hunger in her eyes is something I hope to never forget. It's a fleeting glance that generally is lost in the throng of passion in between deep kisses. It's a look full of power, raw emotion, and electricity. It's not simply bedroom eyes or a come hither stare - this is the look where she's yours even for a short moment in time. She wants you to pull her face to yours, slide your tongue inside her mouth, and slide off her panties - she has given herself to you without fear or hesitation. It's really an intense look, sadly like most realizations it's fleeting and focus shifts.
Being behind a lens during sex takes you to a different place. Your worry shifts from pleasing her through and through to making sure this experience in itself is pleasing and comfortable. You let your sexual instincts take over and don't think about hitting the right spot or how you'll make her moan your name, your body reacts to her body. It's almost like being outside of your body watching yourself having sex. You're forced to pay attention to the photogenic and free to let your body simply merge with hers.
There is a part of me that dislikes that disconnect and a part of me that loves it. It's hard fighting your natural urges to close your eyes or not slide your hands up her body.. you lack having her grab your face and pull you in for a kiss... but at the same time you're preserving moments that you'd usually miss, you're giving her complete control of your body while you capture her doing it.
I'd say it's worth trying a few times if you can find a lover who likes that kind of attention. Going through them together and capturing that look on her face and she looks up with her eyes and has your cock in her mouth... or her mouth slightly open as she moans when you slide inside her.. or that look of total restful peace as her body gives out after a few orgasms and she's ready to be in your arms until time to sleep is well worth any emotional detachment you have to give up for a few hours.
I've been told that men are visual and women are emotional when it comes to sex. I think that might have been true back in 1967 - but today's woman knows how to be just as visual and shallow as any frat boy - not to say that's a bad thing by any stretch of the imagination.
Some of the best sex I've ever had was with a girl who was confident enough in her body, her technique, and her sexuality that she wanted me shooting the whole thing. That not being fair to me (it's hard to cum when you're trying to focus a shot) we decided we'd share the duties.
She stripped down a little at a time, not a sexy strip tease, just one piece of clothing at a time slow enough that I could capture whatever moment in the process that I chose. She slid into the jacuzzi in the hotel room and simply bathed - aside from the pure beauty of a naked woman half submerged in water bathing there was nothing erotic about it. More simple beauty to capture to film. One of the better shots was when she was submerging from the water after rinsing her hair.
Being on that side of the camera while your lover pretends not to pose, pretends not to tease, pretends she's not a temptress, pretends she's not about to crawl to you on her hands and knees, undo your jeans, and slide your cock into her mouth brings about far more anticipation than simply knowing you're getting blown sometime that evening.
Capturing on film the hunger in her eyes is something I hope to never forget. It's a fleeting glance that generally is lost in the throng of passion in between deep kisses. It's a look full of power, raw emotion, and electricity. It's not simply bedroom eyes or a come hither stare - this is the look where she's yours even for a short moment in time. She wants you to pull her face to yours, slide your tongue inside her mouth, and slide off her panties - she has given herself to you without fear or hesitation. It's really an intense look, sadly like most realizations it's fleeting and focus shifts.
Being behind a lens during sex takes you to a different place. Your worry shifts from pleasing her through and through to making sure this experience in itself is pleasing and comfortable. You let your sexual instincts take over and don't think about hitting the right spot or how you'll make her moan your name, your body reacts to her body. It's almost like being outside of your body watching yourself having sex. You're forced to pay attention to the photogenic and free to let your body simply merge with hers.
There is a part of me that dislikes that disconnect and a part of me that loves it. It's hard fighting your natural urges to close your eyes or not slide your hands up her body.. you lack having her grab your face and pull you in for a kiss... but at the same time you're preserving moments that you'd usually miss, you're giving her complete control of your body while you capture her doing it.
I'd say it's worth trying a few times if you can find a lover who likes that kind of attention. Going through them together and capturing that look on her face and she looks up with her eyes and has your cock in her mouth... or her mouth slightly open as she moans when you slide inside her.. or that look of total restful peace as her body gives out after a few orgasms and she's ready to be in your arms until time to sleep is well worth any emotional detachment you have to give up for a few hours.
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